MissingMother.com

by Carna Zacharias-Miller
 

Heal the Pain of Childhood Abandonment and Rejection with EFT

heartheartWas your mother absent early in your life because of illness, death, or emotional unavailability? Did you experience early childhood rejection or (emotional) abandonment by your mother?

heartDo you often feel lost, out of place, and unsafe in this world?
heartIs there a profound sadness in your life, even if nothing is wrong?
heartDo you tend to feel lonely, especially at "Happy Family" gatherings?
heartDo you have major abandonment or anger issues?
heartAre you trying too hard to be happy and "perfect"?

If you answer most of the above questions with Yes, you could suffer from "Missing Mother Syndrome" (not a clinically established term).

Please read the DISCLAIMER before exploring this website.

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Hello, my name is Carna Zacharias-Miller. I am a certified EFT practitioner, and an emotional wellness coach. I know what you are going through: I grew up with a missing mother myself. However, this site is not a place to share or analyze pain; instead, I facilitate going beyond the deep wounds of the past that keep women (and men) who experienced childhood rejection or abandonment by their mothers from living a fulfilled life in the present.

My primary tool for overcoming childhood pains is called EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) a form of mindful acupressure. If you don't have a clue what that is, I will teach you within ten minutes how to do it. EFT helps let go of negative emotions fast, no matter how old they are. Sessions can easily be done over the phone. I have worked with hundreds of clients for the last five years.

What is EFT?
 
Please call or e-mail me for a free consultation.
Phone: (850)878-5690 in Tallahassee, Florida

Easing the pain of Missing Mother Syndrome with EFT

roseWhen I had my very first EFT session as a client, we went straight back to my birth. I released a deep, very painful feeling of abandonment, since my schizophrenic mother was unable to bond with me from the beginning. It was a powerful experience, and it made a believer and an EFT practitioner out of me.

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How to overcome an obstacle

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Magical EFT - with the Genius Symbols

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Which one is the right inner sanctuary for you?

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How do you know what your heart wants

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Imagine feeling better right now

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Posted Mar 16, 2010 1,158 Reads Read Article...

Case study: How to make a very difficult decision

Prayer 2Emotional wellness can be improved in many ways. This is the story of a woman who had been agonizing over making an important decision. EFT and Events Psychology helped her to feel much better about herself.

Posted Mar 1, 2010 1,475 Reads Read Article...

Creative Imagination helps woman to feel better about herself

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How to gain a good self-esteem

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Healing the inner wounded child with EFT

silvia prayer2The world is crowded with lonesome, fearful, and hurt inner children. At least that is  the impression I get when I work with women -and sometimes men- who had emotionally missing mothers and/or fathers. All of my clients suffered from early childhood trauma, they were unappreciated, abandoned, or rejected in their childhood. EFT can make a real difference. 

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What your heart wants to tell you

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Do you feel invisible? Tap on it now

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Bad economy still bugging you? Keep tapping

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Events Psychology: Don't solve it, evolve it

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Do you ever listen to your inner baby?

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